LEADING IDENTITY & SELF-LEADERSHIP MENTOR,
Sarah Kamoto, PRESENTS...
You’re Strategic.
Powerful.
Prepared.
...But The System Isn’t Built For You
You’re the kind of woman who prepares thoroughly, thinks strategically, and plays to win.
You don’t outsource your peace, you lead it.
You’ve documented everything, screenshots, timelines, emails, journals. You’ve got a paper trail that clearly shows what’s happening.
So, of course, you hired a lawyer.
Because that’s what smart, responsible women do.
You assumed:
“If I stay calm, stay factual, and hire a good lawyer… I’ll get what’s fair”.
But here’s where things start to unravel.
Your lawyer knows how to navigate court.
But unless they’re specifically trained in emotional abuse, they will default to what’s expected in family law:
“Try to cooperate”.
“Judges want to see compromise”.
“Let’s make this look high-conflict, instead of abuse”.
It sounds reasonable. But here’s the uncomfortable truth:
Most legal professionals, lawyers, judges, even child services, understand emotional abuse intellectually.
But when it shows up subtly (as gaslighting, coercion, passive control), they often dismiss it.
Why?
Because acknowledging emotional abuse in others requires them to confront it in themselves.
And that’s hard.
It means looking at how they were raised.
How they’ve parented.
How they’ve tolerated dysfunction in their own relationships.
This discomfort creates a subconscious bias:
They minimise the abuse, not because they don’t care, but because seeing it clearly would force them to question too much.
And if you need proof this isn’t just theory...
I wouldn’t have lawyers hiring me for help, if they were truly equipped to handle this on their own.
To be clear:
You still need your lawyer.
But if you walk into court hoping they’ll connect all the dots for you… you’ll likely end up with parenting orders full of loopholes and a case that falls short of what you actually need.
The work we do doesn’t replace your lawyer. It makes what you do with your lawyer 10x more effective.
This is the missing piece I’ve seen play out over and over again in my DMs, years of messages from brilliant women who did everything “right”, handed their lawyer the evidence… and still walked away without the outcome they wanted or deserved.
Not because they weren’t prepared.
But because no one could translate what they were going through into something the court could act on.
That’s the gap we close.
How To Make Your
Narcissistic Coparent's
Behaviour Irrelevant And
Slash Your Legal Bills In The Process
This is where self-led women sharpen their strategy, slash their legal costs, and make their narcissistic coparent's behaviour irrelevant so they can finally build a future that’s about them, not their past.
You won’t build your million-dollar life inside The Unshakeable Coparent, but you will reclaim the mental, emotional, and strategic power that makes it inevitable.
This is the space where your coparent stops being a factor, and you start running your life like the woman who never bends for their dysfunction again.
Because once you’ve got that breathing room, that’s when the fun begins and we shift into legacy, leadership, and your next-level identity.
Here’s what we’re NOT going to do:
❌ Wait for someone else to “see the truth”
❌ Cry about the system being broken (we already know that)
❌ Hope our lawyer magically connects the dots
We don’t do “overwhelm” here.
We don’t do “hoping”.
Here’s what we do inside The Unshakeable Coparent:
- We outplay the broken system with intentionality, not pity
- We lead our legal team with clarity, they follow our game plan
- We don’t spiral, we execute
- We don’t wait, we lead
- We don’t react, we rise
We do strategy. Clarity. Execution.
This Is For You If...
✅ You’re already self-led. You need a strategy that matches your standards.
✅ You have too much on the line to waste time with half-baked strategies or lip service.
✅ You already know the dynamic, you just need help turning it into airtight moves.
✅ You want your lawyer to follow your lead, not the other way around.
✅ You’re done reacting to chaos and ready to lead from personal power, not survival.
The Hard Way
Hand Everything to Your Lawyer and Hope for the Best
Most smart, high-functioning women do exactly what the system expects:
- They document everything (texts, emails, journals), then hand it to their lawyer.
- They trust the professional.
- Because “that’s what responsible women do”, right?
But here’s what really happens:
- Your lawyer doesn’t know how to frame emotional abuse in a way the court accepts, so they fall back on phrases like “communication breakdown” or “high-conflict dynamic”.
- The judge, lacking clarity, dismisses your experience as just another messy “coparenting” situation.
- Your parenting plan ends up full of vague language and loopholes, just enough structure to look legit, but too soft to protect you.
- Every clarification, every follow-up email, every extra explanation leads to…
More billable hours.
More emotional labour.
More trying to explain what you already know is happening.
And then?
You don’t lose.
You just… don’t win.
You get some boundaries.
Some protection.
A plan that sort of works.
The blurred lines work very well for your coparent, because they can keep doing what they’re doing and get away with it.
But it doesn’t work for you. You want out of this dynamic.
But the cycle keeps going.
And you’re left wondering:
“How did I do everything right… and still not get what I needed?”
The True Cost of the Hard Way:
❌ Tens (or hundreds) of thousands in legal fees
❌ A plan that lets the manipulation continue behind the scenes
❌ Chronic stress and ongoing legal conflict
❌ A lawyer who’s overwhelmed, or ready to fire you and walk away
❌ The haunting realisation that you’re stuck in round two of the same fight
The Smart Way
Make Your Lawyer 10x More Effective, Without Relying on Them to ‘Get It’
Instead of hoping someone else finally understands…
You walk into court prepared.
Strategic. Calm. One step ahead.
- Your evidence is organised, relevant, and undeniable.
- Your lawyer knows exactly what’s happening, and how to argue it.
- The court sees the pattern, not just the incidents.
- Your parenting plan is airtight.
- And your coparent's behaviour starts becoming irrelevant.
You’re not reacting anymore.
You’re executing.
You’re not defending yourself.
You’re directing the process.
This isn’t about fighting harder.
It’s about operating smarter.
And deep down, you know that you can't solve a $100k problem with a one-off $100 Masterclass.
The Results Of The Smart Way:
✅ A parenting plan that’s airtight, built to discourage abuse, not perpetuate it.
✅ A legal process that’s faster, and less financially and emotionally draining, because you’ve already done the heavy lifting your lawyer can’t.
✅ Peace of mind, knowing you’ve done what needed to be done, regardless of the outcome.
✅ Freedom from the emotional chaos that’s defined this process until now.
✅ And most importantly: a safer, more stable future for your children, protected by clear boundaries the court understands and enforces.
INTRODUCING
The Unshakeable Coparent
The membership for high-caliber women who are done waiting for permission, and ready to win back control of their life.
This is for the woman who leads herself well.
The woman who protects her peace like a fortress.
The woman who's unf*ckwithable.
Inside, you’ll sharpen your strategy, neutralise your coparent’s influence, and reclaim control of your legal, emotional, and mental bandwidth, without spinning your wheels or draining your bank account.
And then you’ll finally be free to start creating a million-dollar life that you can get excited about and be obsessed with.
The plan is simple...
PHASE 1: QUICK WINS
Immediate emotional breathing space and reduction in legal fees:
- EvidenceEdge™ AI Tool
Upload incidents → have them instantly rewritten, with a clear explanation of the subtle abusive behaviour, ready to use in court.
Save hours of lawyer processing time, and thousands in fees. - CommunicationEdge™ AI
Analyse your coparent’s messages.
Respond strategically, without giving emotional fuel (Coming May 2025) - Children Scripts
Reinforce emotional safety with practical, non-triggering language.
Age-appropriate tools for resilient, unshakeable kids. - 7-Day SarahGram Sprint
Get activated with daily 10-15min audio drops, powerful activations to get you energetically aligned and focused so you can consistently execute everything you learn.
And if you’re already done with court…
You can skip ahead and only focus on your children, and the communication with your coparent.
PHASE 2: STRATEGIC MASTERY
Focus on strategically neutralising your biggest friction points with my three core programs:
Narc Proof Court & Mediation
- Build unshakeable credibility with judges and legal professionals.
- Create Narc-Proof parenting plans that leave zero room for manipulation.
- Expertly document and present evidence, commanding respect in court.
Narc Proof Communication & Boundaries
- Master the Narc Proof Communication Framework to neutralise conflict instantly.
- Protect your energy and maintain clarity like a Queen of Boundaries.
Narc Proof Children & Connection
- Narc-Proof your kids with strategies that counter manipulation effectively.
- Equip your children with the resilience to process emotions and bounce back from challenges.
- Strengthen your bond with trust-building practices and loving boundaries.
- Become an Unshakeable Role Model, setting the ultimate example of confidence and resilience for your children.
This membership is a “choose your own adventure” situation where you have the resources to help you focus on your priorities.
What You Get In A Snapshot
1️⃣ Full Program Library Access
All trainings, tools, and frameworks unlocked
2️⃣ Monthly Hot Seat Zoom Calls
Break through your biggest challenges, get personalised coaching, and reinforce your mindset in real time
3️⃣ Private Telegram Community
Be supported inside a community of women on the same journey
4️⃣ Good Girl Gone Bad
Weekly audio activations to recalibrate and stay in alignment with your higher self
5️⃣ EvidenceEdge™ AI Tool
Strategic evidence processing at your fingertips
6️⃣ CommunicationEdge™ AI Tool
Analyse your coparent’s messages and respond strategically, without giving emotional fuel aka narcissistic supply (coming May 2025)
You’ll know exactly what to focus on.
And you’ll have everything you need to take action immediately.
What You Get In Detail...
Save Time, Money, And Energy
With Our AI Chatbots
- Narc Proof AI - CommunicationEdge™ (Value: $1,000):
Your ultimate coparenting assistant for seamless, stress-free communication.
- Analyse: Breaks down your coparent's texts or emails.
- Recommend: Provides tailored responses rooted in Sarah’s Narc Proof Communication™ Principles.
- Versatile: Works effortlessly with coparenting apps, texts, or emails.
So you stop forwarding every email to your lawyer and chewing up your retainer.
(Estimated Launch: May 2025)
- Narc Proof AI - EvidenceEdge™ (Value: $3,000):
The game-changing tool for gathering strong evidence.
- Step-by-Step Guidance: Let the AI app guide you through documenting every incident.
- Strengthen Your Case: Get the AI app to analyse and enhance your evidence for maximum court impact.
- Global Usability: Works in any jurisdiction and in most languages, no tech skills required.
So you don’t have to gamble on your lawyer's ability to read between the lines of subtle emotional abuse.
We make it easy to get started
We start by identifying your priority areas so you can start getting rapid results immediately in our first 60 days together.
It’s just $249 USD/month, cancel anytime.
One hour less with your lawyer pays for the whole month.
One messy court cycle you avoid, can save you tens of thousands.
- We call The Unshakeable Coparent a strategic investment as it saves you far more than the membership fees.
- By handling less than 1 hour of work you'd normally delegate to your lawyer each month, you'll easily cover your membership fees.
- Plus, if you handle more of the "legal footwork", you will avoid going down the legal rabbit hole, saving you tens of thousands more in legal expenses.
- All my Narc Proof Principles and teachings do not contradict and are compliant with family law in most developed countries, especially US, Canada, UK, Australia & European countries.
LEGAL DISCLAIMER:
This membership doesn't constitute legal advice. Always consult with a licensed attorney, lawyer or solicitor.
THE UNSHAKEABLE COPARENT
Where you and other powerful, self-led women sharpen your strategy, slash your legal costs, and make your narcissistic coparent's behaviour irrelevant, so you can finally build a future that’s about you, not your past.
MONTHLY
- Narc Proof Court & Mediation
• Narc Proof Parenting Plans™
• Documenting Evidence™
• Third Party Allies™ - Narc Proof Communication & Boundaries
• Queen of Boundaries™
• Narc Proof Communication™
• Narc Proof Texting 101™ - Narc Proof Children & Connection
• Narc Proofing Your Kids Against Manipulation™
• Kids That Bounce Back™
• Strengthening the Bond™
• Unshakeable Role Model™ - 1x 55-Minute Hot-Seat Coaching Call per month
- Private Telegram Community
- Good Girl Gone Bad™
- Narc Proof AI - CommunicationEdge™
- Narc Proof AI - EvidenceEdge™
- Unlimited Access Pass To Any Other Course, Digital Product, Or Live Program Of The Unshakeable Coparent I Run
$249 USD
PER MONTH - CANCEL ANYTIME
ANNUAL
- Narc Proof Court & Mediation
• Narc Proof Parenting Plans™
• Documenting Evidence™
• Third Party Allies™ - Narc Proof Communication & Boundaries
• Queen of Boundaries™
• Narc Proof Communication™
• Narc Proof Texting 101™ - Narc Proof Children & Connection
• Narc Proofing Your Kids Against Manipulation™
• Kids That Bounce Back™
• Strengthening the Bond™
• Unshakeable Role Model™ - 1x 55-Minute Hot-Seat Coaching Call per month
- Private Telegram Community
- Good Girl Gone Bad™
- Narc Proof AI - CommunicationEdge™
- Narc Proof AI - EvidenceEdge™
- Unlimited Access Pass To Any Other Course, Digital Product, Or Live Program Of The Unshakeable Coparent I Run
$2,497 USD
PER YEAR
Ultimately, it starts paying for itself from the first 60 days
By the end of Phase 1, we’ll both know if you’re the right fit for the community, so there's no risk:
Worst Case? You Save Thousands.
You’ll pick up a few valuable skills to reduce your legal expenses, strengthen your case, and effectively support your children’s resilience.
Best Case? You Change Everything!
You'll be on your way to making your coparent's behaviour irrelevant, building a powerhouse court case, and raising resilient children, while shutting down your coparent’s BS.
There’s no risk.
- We’ll both know within the first 60 days if this is the right fit.
- If it’s not, we part ways, no hard feelings.
But if it IS the right fit?
- You’ll save so much time, money, and emotional bandwidth.
- You’ll start making your coparent's behaviour irrelevant.
- And you’ll finally have the breathing room to build something beautiful (and when you’re ready you’ll graduate to The Iconic Woman™, my high-level mentorship where the fun begins…)
Because this isn't just about court or coparenting.
It's about leading your life like the woman you know you are, driven, sovereign, and unf*ckwithable.
THE UNSHAKEABLE COPARENT
Where you and other powerful, self-led women sharpen your strategy, slash your legal costs, and make your narcissistic coparent's behaviour irrelevant, so you can finally build a future that’s about you, not your past.
$249 USD
PER MONTH
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P.S. As soon as you join, you’ll get immediate access to:
- 7-Day SarahGram Sprint activations, getting you energetically aligned and focused
- Slash Your Legal Bill in Half Resources, including immediate access to EvidenceEdge™ AI, and actionable strategies that help you save way more in legal fees than what you pay for your membership.
HEY POWERHOUSE,
You already know you were made for more.
I'm Sarah Kamoto.
The founder of Unshakeable Coparenting, and if you’re here, you’re exactly where you need to be.
I don’t do small. I don’t do timid.
And I sure as hell don’t believe in apologising for stepping into your personal power.
When I started this journey, I was in the trenches just like you, dealing with the chaos, the mind games, the sleepless nights. But I refused to let any of it define me.
I wasn’t existing just to “cope”. I was here to take my life back, fully and completely.
And so are you.
This goes beyond getting through coparenting. It’s about making their nonsense irrelevant.
I know the frustration. The “Can I really do this?” moments.
The fear that this might be as good as it gets.
But I broke that cycle. And I kept doing the work, so my kids wouldn’t have to.
I became the unshakeable leader they needed. That’s why you’re here – because you’re ready to do the same.
You are walking through fire, and refusing to let it burn you down.
This is for the women who are ready to rise. Let’s go.
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